Day 22: Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
These questions are always tough for me. I am not a long term thinker. It's why I'll never be good at chess and it drives my hubby nuts.
Let's see, in 5 years, I'll be 42 with a 16 year old, a 14 year old, and a 7 year old. So, I'll probably teaching the oldest to drive, dealing with boyfriends with her (UGH), *maybe* looking at colleges, *maybe* starting to deal with girlfriends with the 14 year old, but I doubt it (he's so shy), hopefully, he'll have matured a bit and be a bit more independent. I love that he loves me so much, but I do try to push him away from the nest at times, too. I'm sure the little one will just be a typical 7 year old. I have a feeling he'll be the adventurous one and I see numerous trips to the ER for bumps, bruises, and perhaps broken limbs in his future.
In 10 years, I'll be 47 with a 21 year old (YIKES), 19 year old, and a 12 year old. I'm guessing by then I'll have to go back to work since I'll probably have 2 kids in college at that point. I'm not sure if college is in the cards for Ian. He is not a student. He is a "do-er". He learns by doing and books are just NOT his thing. Of course, I realize he's still young and that could change, but I see him maybe going to a technical school and learning a trade versus a traditional 4 year college. I have no problem picturing Ellie in a 4 year college. She's so smart and learning just comes so naturally to her. I could even see her maybe going on to more education, like law school, if she could just focus herself. Ryan, I have no idea. He's still too young to tell. Right now, extreme skateboarding does not seem out of the realm of possibility with him.
In 15 years, WOW! I don't even know! Like I said, I'm not a long term thinker. I'll be 52. Hubby and I will celebrate our 30th anniversary that year!! That will be something! Maybe I'll be a grandmother by then. I'll have a 26 year old, a 24 year old, and a 17 year old. My child-rearing days will be just about done. If I don't have grandchildren, I know I'll be waiting anxiously for them! LOL Maybe I'll go back to school. I would love to travel some. I'm sure God has something in store for me. I'll just trust Him to keep revealing it to me one step at a time. I know He has more in store for me than I can even imagine. It's so comforting.
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